دیدگاه طرح‌واره درمانگران نسبت به نقش مولفه‌های طرح‌واره‌ای در سبب‌شناسی خیانت زناشویی: یک مطالعه کیفی

Document Type : علمی - پژوهشی

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1 دانشگاه شهید بهشتی

2 دانشگاه علوم پزشکی ایران

Abstract

رابطه خارج از ازدواج یکی ازشایع­ترین و آسیب­زاترین مشکلات زوجی است. پیش­بینی­کننده­های خیانت زناشویی در سه طبقه مولفه­های فردی، ارتباطی و بافتاری طبقه­بندی می­شوند. در این مطالعه قصد بررسی نقش یکی از مهم ترین مولفه­های فردی یعنی طرح­واره­های ناسازگار اولیه را در این پدیده داریم. برای رسیدن به این هدف سه گروه متمرکز از متخصصین حوزه طرح­واره درمانی تشکیل شد و داده­ها به روش کلارک و بران تحلیل شد. در نهایت سه مضمون سایه­بانی مولفه­های حالتی طرح­واره، مولفه­های صفتی طرح­واره و مولفه­های فراتر از طرح­واره استخراج شد. نتایج نشان دادند که فعالیت طرح­واره­های حوزه طرد و بریدگی، محدودیت­های مختل و دیگر جهت­مندی در کنار استراتژی­های مقابله جبران افراطی و تسلیم در افراد دارای خیانت زناشویی پرنگ­تر مشاهده شده است. ذهنیت­های کودک آسیب دیده، کودک تکانشی، والد سرزنشگر و محافط منفک شده خود آرام بخش نیز مورد توجه بودند. نهایتا دیگر مولفه­های فردی و بافتاری موثر در خانت زناشویی نیز مورد اشاره متخصصین قرار گرفتند. در مجموع می­توان گفت، طرح­واره ناسازگار اولیه به عنوان یک فاکتور فردی در کنار مولفه­های دیگر در بروز رابطه خارج از زادواج موثر هستند.

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Journal of Family Research
Volume 16, Issue 2 - Serial Number 2
September 2020
Pages 199-216

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