همبستگی و تضاد در روابط فرزندان بزرگ‌سال و والدین

نوع مقاله : مقاله پژوهشی

نویسندگان

1 گروه مطالعات خانواده، مؤسسۀ تحقیقات جمعیت کشور

2 گروه آمار زیستی، دانشگاه تربیت مدرس

چکیده

در این مقاله، با استفاده از روش تحلیل طبقۀ پنهان و نرم‌افزار Mplus به گونه‌شناسی روابط فرزندان بزرگ‌سال و والدین پرداخته‌ایم. جامعۀ آماری پیمایش، زنان و مردان هجده سال و بالاتر شهر تهران بودند که حداقل یک والد زنده داشتند و با والدین خود هم‌سکنا نبوده‌اند. ابزار به‌کارگرفته‌شده پرسش‌نامه بوده و به‌شیوۀ نمونه‌گیری خوشه‌ای چندمرحله‌ای، نمونۀ ۱۰۰۰نفری از 30 حوزۀ شهر تهران انتخاب شده است. نتایج نشان داده: الگوی روابط فرزندان بزرگ‌سال با پدر و مادر تقریباً یکسان بوده و چهار گونه رابطۀ هماهنگ، عاطفی، اجباری،‌ و ناسازگار شناسایی شده که متأثر از شرایط ساختاری بوده‌اند. روابط هماهنگ بیش از ۵۰ درصد و روابط عاطفی بیش از ۳۰ درصد را به خود اختصاص داده‌اند. روابط اجباری در سطح پایین و در مادران بیش از پدران (۵/۵ در برابر ۵/۳) بوده و روابط ناسازگار نیز در سطح پایین و در پدران بیش از مادران بوده است (۶/۸ در برابر ۷/۳). با افزایش فاصلۀ جغرافیایی شانس قرارگرفتن در گونه‌های عاطفی و ناسازگار افزایش یافته است. روابط ناسازگار در افرادی که پدرانشان طلاق گرفته یا بدون همسر بوده‌اند، بیش از دیگر گونه‌ها گزارش شده است. کیفیت رابطۀ با والدین، در گونۀ هماهنگ و عاطفی، بالاتر از گونۀ اجباری و به‌ویژه گونۀ ناسازگار بوده است. به‌طور کلی می‌توان گفت در روابط میان فرزندان بزرگ‌سال و والدین در شهر تهران، همبستگی نسلی غالب بوده و تضاد نسلی شایع نیست.

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عنوان مقاله [English]

Solidarity and Conflict between Adult Children and Parents

نویسندگان [English]

  • Fateme Modiri 1
  • Tofigh Mobaderi 2
1 National Institute for Population Research
2 Biostatistics dep., Tarbiat Modares University
چکیده [English]

In this article, we have studied the typology of adult children and parents using the latent class analysis method and Mplus software. The statistical population of this survey was men and women aged 18 and over in Tehran who had at least one living parent and noncoresident. The instrument used was a questionnaire and the sampling method is multi-stage cluster and has been selected a sample of 1000 people from 30 districts of Tehran. The results show that: The pattern of adult children's relationships with father and mother is almost the same and have been identified 4 types of Harmonious, Emotional, Obligatory and Discordant relationships that have been affected by structural conditions. 
Harmonious relationships have been more than 50% and emotional relationships more than 30%. Obligatory relationships were lower at mothers than fathers (5.5 vs. 3.5) and discordant relationships were lower at fathers than mothers (8.6 vs. 3.7). With increasing geographical distance, the chances of being in the emotional and discordant types have increased, and discordant relationships has been reported more in people whose fathers are divorced or without a spouse than in other types. The quality of the relationship with the parents, in a harmonious and emotional types, have been more than obligatiry and especially discordant. In general, it can be said that in the relations between adult children and parents in the city of Tehran, generational solidarity is dominant and generational conflict is not common

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

  • Generational solidarity
  • Conflict with Parents
  • Latent Class Analysis
  • Mplus
  • Typology
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